Has your girlfriend dumped you and what's worse, made it clear that she never wants to see you again? Has your lover turned into your ex? Well perhaps you shouldn't write off your relationship just yet!

Women as we men all know can be very fickle creatures indeed! But what you have to realise as a man is that a woman's emotions towards you can change on an hourly basis! It can be very confusing trying to work out just where you stand in a relationship! And even more confusing when the relationship has broken up!

So what can you do if you really want your ex back in your life but she seems intent on ignoring you? There are actually several things you can do to turn on your ex's attraction for you again and I'm going to take you through some of them.

The first thing you must do is sit down and go over your relationship in your head. I know you are probably doing this already but I would suspect for the wrong reasons. Instead of agonising over what you could have done differently try and find clues in what your ex may have said leading up to the breakup. If she was constantly getting at you for being untidy or not dressing well enough then it may be time for a makeover!

Clean that apartment up! Throw out what you don't need and if necessary give the place a paint job! If you have any female friends who have a good idea about interior decorating then ask their advice. Once you have got your place in order then it's time to turn your attention to yourself!

Those same female friends can also help you to choose new clothes, get a new haircut and maybe even some cologne! Women have an innate sense of style and know colours in a way we can only dream of! Think of it this way. If you are well dressed and your female friends find you attractive what do you think your ex will think of you?

Next it's time to become the in demand guy! And yes you guessed it, this is where your female friends can help you too! Ask them if they know any single girlfriends of theirs who would be interested in dating you. Being seen out on the town with a succession of beautiful women on your arm will certainly make your ex sit up and take notice! But a word of warning here! Always be honest with any girl you take out and don't lead them on. And please whatever you do, don't approach your ex's friends and try to date them! You will only end up looking like a complete sleazeball and your ex will definitely never want to talk to you again!

So there you are, three quick and easy tips to help you in your fight to win back your ex! Make sure and visit the site below for more information and a sure fire plan to get your ex back!