It may be hard to believe but 9 out 10 times a woman leaves a man, it's because the man did something wrong! Now I know that if you are a man trying to get his ex girlfriend back and you are reading this, the first thought you are going to have is "Well done Sherlock Holmes! I know I did something wrong!" But do you really know what you did wrong? Men and women think completely differently. A man works a relationship out in his head, a woman in her heart. Very often this leads to a relationship breakdown because two people are on completely different paths. So if you want your ex back then you are going to have to stop thinking like a man and start thinking like a woman! You just need to figure out what it was you did wrong from a woman's perspective!
How do you do that? Simple, just ask her to explain what it was you did wrong. Now some women will take great delight in telling you all your faults in great detail and then enjoy watching you squirm as you try to work out just which one of the many faults you have finally drove her away! This can be a difficult one but by putting your emotional hat on instead of your thinking hat then it shouldn't be too hard. Remember women think with their hearts not their heads when it comes to relationships! If she won't tell you then you will have to work it out as best you can, in that case have a look at the following ways to get your ex girlfriend back.
1, Did you pay her enough attention? A woman has to feel that her man is paying attention to her every mood. Yes it can be difficult when all you want to do is watch Monday night football but it can be done! If you can show her that you are paying attention to her above all else then you will really score points on the "sensitive man" scoreboard in her heart!
2, I can't stress enough the difference in the amount of emotional support a woman needs compared to a man. Ever wondered why women go to the bathroom in groups on a night out? It's because when they touch up their makeup or want to know what to do about a guy chatting them up, having their friends with them gives them emotional support and all the advice they need! Bet you always wondered about that didn't you! As men we simply aren't used to giving or getting emotional support, in fact we generally run a mile as soon as the word emotion comes up in conversation! But if you want your ex girlfriend back then you have to work on both showing her your emotions and more importantly recognising her emotional state. It really isn't that hard, just takes a little practise!
3, Most men live like slobs! It's an unfortunate fact of life. Leave us on our own and we will turn a nice clean apartment into a dump in no time at all! Was your ex continually on at you about keeping the place neat and tidy? Lifting your clothes off the floor, throwing your empty beer cans in the trash? Did she "nag" you about it? Well now, maybe she had a reason to nag, did you ever think about that? Contrary to popular belief very few women nag for no reason and if they do it's not because they enjoy nagging you, it's because they are not happy with some facet of your behaviour! So perhaps it's time to change? When you and your ex start to speak again you will need to show her that you have changed and if that means learning how the washing machine works and giving the place a lick of paint then so be it! When you get your ex girlfriend back both of you will be starting a new relationship so why not give her a new and clean place to start it in?
When the time comes for you to make an effort to get your ex back bear in mind that it is not an impossible task. But it will require you to change, to become a more responsible, mature man. If you can show her that you are capable of change and genuine in trying to get her back you will succeed!
