Hello girls. I know you're in a lot of pain right now. I was so heartbroken after our breakup that I probably would have done just about anything to get my ex boyfriend back. But you don't want to start chasing after him all gung-ho. Below are a few major mistakes that you certainly don't want to make.

Hello ladies. I know you are in plenty of pain right now. I was so heartbroken after our breakup that I probably would have done almost anything to get my ex boyfriend back. But before you dive in and begin chasing after the guy, allow me to share a couple of things with you. Below are a few key mistakes that you absolutely don't want to make.

Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Mistake #1 - Keep yourself from becoming one of those women that is always trying to contact him. I did this before, so I am not trying to lecture you here. I know what it is like to miss your ex boyfriend so terribly and to have all those instincts just well up in you to pick up the phone and tell them precisely how you feel. You would like to apologize for everything you did wrong and tell him just how much you love him.

Keep yourself from doing this though, as it will just come off as desperation. You see if your ex boyfriend broke up with you, all he really wants is some breathing space away from the relationship and when you are consistently calling him, he is not getting that space and he'll essentially push you even further away.

Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Mistake #2 - Do not try to make him envious by dating another guy. Yeah, jealousy is a very powerful thing that can be used to win your ex back, but a little goes a long way and too much can hurt your chances. He might see you seeing someone new as a signal that you are over the relationship and that he ought to get over it also and find a new girlfriend.

Take this time as an ideal opportunity to enjoy things that being in a relationship prevented you from enjoying. spend time with your friends or take up some fun new hobbies that you have always been postponing. Remember that he fell for you to begin with because of all the fun and intriguing things about your personality. Get out your front door and live life and become that fun and happy person again!

Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Mistake #3 - If he is seeing someone else by now, don't try to put her down or insult her. If he is already dating someone new, then he's in a classic rebound relationship. He is still so new out of his relationship with you, that he won't be able to help but compare the new girl to you. Is she more pleasurable to be with than you??Is she more optimistic than you?

Do your best to make certain that you are the most positive and optimistic person he knows. Each and every time he certainly asks himself these things, he will not be able to help but imagine you. If he just saw you and you were nothing but happy and cheerful, he'll have no alternative but to compare his new girlfriend to that.. It抯 likely she will not measure up and he'll start to realize he's made a mistake.